The secret of reigning in life lies with receiving everything that Jesus has accomplished for us on the cross.
As you receive His abundance of grace and the gift of righteousness, mistakes and feelings won’t define you, you will reign as a king over your mistakes and feelings. As you depend on His abundance of grace, it’s His grace that perfects your weakness, so now it’s His strength that defines you.
In God’s eyes, righteousness is a gift, God esteems you as righteous, therefore see yourself the way God sees you and not according to how you feel. God wants us to bring our thoughts to the obedience of Christ, it’s His obedience that makes us righteous.